Summer camp is a rite of passage for many kids, but for parents, finding the right fit can be overwhelming. Here’s how to begin your search.

KNOW YOUR CHILD’S INTERESTS AND NEEDS

What excites your child? Are they an outdoor adventurer, a budding artist or an athlete? Also, think about personality and comfort level. Some kids are ready for the adventure of overnight camp, while others may prefer to stay close to home. If your child has medical, dietary or socialemotional needs, look for camps with inclusive programs designed to provide support.

CHOOSE THE CAMP TYPE

• Day Camps: Great for younger kids or those who are not ready for overnight stays.
• Overnight Camps: Ideal for older or more independent campers. Specialty Camps: Good for specific interests like sports, art, or STEM.
• Traditional Camps: Better for those who prefer a mix of classic activities like swimming, hiking, and crafts.
• Faith-Based Camps: Geared toward those who want spiritual growth with fun and friendship.

RESEARCH THE CAMP’S REPUTATION

Ask friends for recommendations and read reviews. Camps accredited by the American Camp Association (ACA) meet high standards for safety and quality. Check the camp’s website and social media for photos or videos. When possible, visit an open house or attend a camp fair.

CHECK SAFETY PROTOCOLS & REVIEW THE SCHEDULE

Ask about staff training, experience, and the counselor-to-camper ratio. Inquire about medical staff and emergency procedures, especially for allergies or injuries. And look for a mix of structured activities and downtime. That balance keeps kids engaged without overwhelming them.

CONSIDER LOCATION AND COST

Make sure getting to day camp is manageable. Overnight camps should also be within a distance you’re comfortable with. Costs vary, but many camps offer scholarships, early registration discounts or payment plans.

TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS

Finally, trust your gut. If a camp doesn’t feel right, keep looking. The perfect camp is out there, and when you find it, you’ll know.

— Rebecca Hastings is a former teacher and author. She has been featured on sites such as The Washington Post and Parents.

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Deciding where your kids will go to summer camp is a big decision, but with the right information, it can be fun and exciting. Here’s what to consider when navigating the process.

LEAN INTO YOUR KID’S INTERESTS

If your child has a specific interest, like soccer, music or science, a specialty camp might be perfect. If they love trying a bit of everything, a traditional camp with a variety of activities—like swimming, hiking, and arts and crafts—may be better.

GET RECOMMENDATIONS

Word of mouth is powerful. Ask friends, neighbors, and other parents about their camp experiences. Look at online reviews or social media groups to get a broader sense of which camps have a great reputation.

CHECK ACCREDITATION

Look for camps that are accredited by the American Camp Association (ACA) or another trustworthy organization. Accreditation means the camp meets strict standards for safety, staffing and program quality. This gives you extra peace of mind.

REVIEW THE CAMP’S STAFF

A well-trained and experienced staff is crucial for a positive camp experience. Ask about the counselor-to-camper ratio and the qualifications of the camp staff. Ideally, the camp should have counselors who are trained in first aid and child development. And there should always be certified lifeguards for all swimming or water activities.

ASK ABOUT SAFETY AND HEALTH PROTOCOLS

Safety should always be a priority. Ask the camp about their health protocols, including how they handle medical issues or emergencies. Does the camp have nurses or trained medical staff on-site?

CONSIDER LOCATION AND COST

Think about the commute, start and end times, and where it will be held. Don’t be afraid to ask about scholarships or discounts that can make camp more affordable.

VISIT THE CAMP IF YOU CAN

Visiting the camp in person is a great way to get a feel for the environment. Many camps offer open houses or tours where you can meet the staff, see the facilities, and ask questions. This firsthand experience can help you feel more confident in your decision and give your child a sense of excitement about their upcoming adventure.

TRUST YOUR GUT

Finally, trust your instincts. If something doesn’t feel right, it’s okay to keep looking. You know your child best, and when you find the right camp, it will feel like the perfect fit. With these tips in hand, you’re well on your way to choosing a camp that will give your child a summer filled with lasting memories.

—Rebecca Hastings is a former teacher whose writing has been featured on sites such as The Washington Post and Parents.

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Spring Break is almost here for many school districts and there are plenty of spring break camps scheduled all over New Jersey. Whether they love animals, sports or are all about arts and crafts, here are some fun options for their week off from school:

Around the Corner Art Center

290 Mounts Corner Dr., Freehold Twp.
732-308-4666
April 14-18

Kids ages 5-14 can unleash their creativity by painting an underwater scene, sculpting a pottery frog or drawing an adorable panda.

Arts Council of Princeton

102 Witherspoon St., Princeton
609-924-8777
April 14-18

Camp is broken down by age group: Kids ages 5-7 can sign up for Moving & Making; or kids ages 8-12 can draw, paint and do ceramics.

Branchburg Sports Complex

47 Readington Rd., Branchburg
908-203-1600
April 14-18

Campers from kindergarten (they must be 5 by Oct. 1) to sixth grade can attend the School’s Out program, which has arcade games, batting cages, field sports, a GaGa pit, PlayMaze and boasts time in a multi-level 9,000-square-foot laser tag arena. Full- and half-day options are available.

Code Wiz Rutherford

310 Union Ave., Rutherford
201-231-7576
April 21-25

The April Vacation Camps teach your 8- to 12-year-olds how to design their own Roblox games.

Dutch Total Soccer

300 Memorial Dr., Somerset
732-748-4625
April 14-18

Players ages 6-13 who are on rec, travel or elite teams can advance their footwork, ball, power shooting, speed, agility and competition skills.

Exceptional Explorers

277 Eisenhower Pkwy., Suite 12C, Livingston
973-302-3194
April 14-18

Choose from a half-day morning session or full day for the week where your kids can use the indoor playground, take part in an arts & crafts class and play board games with other children. Limited to kids who are 4 and can go to the bathroom on their own.

Gravity Vault

40 Watchung Ave., Chatham
973-701-7625
April 14-18

Get your lil’ climbers out of the house and keep their minds and bodies moving with two hours of top-rope climbing, games and other activities that will help them boost their confidence and increase their strength. With multiple rock walls to scale, this camp is ideal for first-timers or experienced climbers. They can race to the top and maybe even try their hand at balancing on a slack line.

HealthBarn USA

1057 Hillcrest Rd., Ridgewood
201-444-2955
April 14-18, 21-25

HealthBarn USA’s holiday camps are for children ages 4-13 who love to cook, compost and go on nature hikes.

Lamb Camp

Misty Meadow Sheep Dairy, Petersburg
April 21-25

At this Cape May County farm, you can raise your own lamb, care for it, bottle-feed it and clean it in one-hour sessions.

Montclair Community Farms

108 Orange Rd., Montclair
April 4-18

During Sweet Pea Spring Break, the week-long camp of outdoor exploration is designed for students in grades K-5, and will focus on getting students engaged in hands-on projects around the farm. Activities will include caring for chickens, starting seeds for a vegetable garden, making planters, making flower seed bombs, learning about beekeeping, making bird feeders, and learning about composting.

New Jersey Audubon

Scherman Hoffman Wildlife Sanctuary, Bernardsville
908-396-6386
April 14-16, 23-25

Each themed day will be filled with super fun teacher/naturalist-led activities and adventures in the great outdoors for kids ages 6-9, and ages 10-14.

New Jersey State Museum

205 W. State St., Trenton
609-292-6464
April 22-25

There are special planetarium shows every day during Spring Break, or sign up for a drop-in session where activities include making the Earth using sand, making your own bird feeder or listening to storytime.

Oakland Recreation Sports Camp

Oakland Rec Complex, 24 Lawlor Dr., Oakland
201-375-7406
April 14-17

If your kids love lots of sports, they won’t have to choose at this multi-sport camp that is held on half-day and full-day schedules.

Results Boxing Fitness Spring Break Camp

Brunswick Square Mall, 755 Rte. 18, East Brunswick
732-390-0005
April 14-18, 21-25

Get the kids moving with weight training, an obstacle course, agility and balance games, and coordination and motor skill games.

Ridgewood Parks & Recreation Spring Break Camps

Veterans Field, Corner of Linwood and Maple Avenues, Ridgewood
201-670-5560
April 14-17

Kids will get the chance to learn the sport of golf in a safe environment. They will develop basic skills including stance, swing, putting, rules, scoring, etiquette and sportsmanship. Or, they can enroll in a half-day multi-sport camp.

Rockin’ J Ranch 

236 N. Leipzig Ave., Egg Harbor City
888-534-0989
April 14-18, 21-25

Rockin’ J Ranch has brought a cowboy lifestyle to South Jersey. Straight from Texas, Morgan McCracken Johnson and Brian Johnson teach western-style horse lessons to all ages and levels. Enjoy horse riding lessons, barrel and roping lessons, western experiences and walkabouts, pushing cows and more.

Somerset County 4-H Spring Break Ag-Venture Days

Ted Blum 4-H Center, 310 Milltown Rd., Bridgewatere
908-526-6644
April 14-17

Activities for kids in grades 2-6 include farm tours, small animal care, gardening, marine science, equine science and farm-to-table cooking.

The Sports Factory

175 Beaverbrook Rd., Lincoln Park
973-696-9199
April 14-17

Indoor soccer camps are designed to help players improve their technical ability and understanding of the game in a fun and challenging environment. Skills include fundamental ball mastery techniques, dribbling, 1 vs. 1 tricks and turns, passing and control, shooting and finishing.

Superdome Sports

134 Hopper Ave., Waldwick
201-444-7660
21-05 Morlot Ave., Fair Lawn
201-796-8000
160 Legrand Ave., Northvale
201-444-7660
April 14-18, 21-25

Choose a half-day or full-day session, where kids can focus on just soccer, or try out a variety of sports like football, basketball, kickball and dodgeball.

TADA! Youth Theater

15 West 28th Street, New York
212-252-1619
April 14-18

Your future Broadway star can try something new. Either privately or with a group, they will get musical theater training, create and perform an original mini-musical, and be treated to ensemble-based instruction from a professional artist.

Tenafly Nature Center

313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly
201-568-6093
April 14-18

When school’s out, the nature center will host three camps: one for pre-K and Kindergarten kids, one for grades 1-6, and one for grades 7 and 8. Campers will hit the woods and trails, make crafts, share stories and play games, all while learning about the environment. Camp is completely outdoors, so activities may include hikes and visits with live animals.

Torpedoes Soccer Club

Pulis Field, behind the Wyckoff YMCA, Spring Meadow Drive, Wyckoff
April 14-18

Players in Kindergarten through Level U12 can practice at the outdoor turf facility so they can build their skills and enjoyment of soccer through drills and games. Children will be placed in age-appropriate groups. The curriculum will include fundamental ball mastery techniques, dribbling, 1-vs.-1 skills and turns, passing and control, shooting and finishing. You do not need to be a current Torpedoes travel soccer player to join.

Turtle Back Zoo

560 Northfield Ave., West Orange
973-731-5800
April 14-18

With 200+ species representing animals from around the world, this is a fun spot for a spring break camp for ages 5-10. Kids love the Turtle Back Zoo for its treetop adventure course with zip lines. At camp, they will dive into animal and conservation-themed activities and games. They’ll also take part in behind-the-scenes visits, up-close animal encounters and science crafts.

Urban Sewciety

361 South Ave E. Ste 4 (2nd Fl), Westfield
908-232-0600
April 16-17

Kids can sign up for a Spring Break Camp where they’ll make an Elphaba or Glinda doll from the movie “Wicked.”

Vets in Training Spring Break Camp

HousePaws, 801 Centeron Rd., Mt. Laurel and 427 Jackson Rd., Atco
856-677-8134
April 18-25

Kids from kindergarten to sixth grade will learn about the human-animal bond through hands-on educational veterinary care. Kids will learn how to feed animals, clean cages, play safely and learn about hospital patients.

West Windsor Arts Center

952 Alexander Rd., Princeton Junction
973-731-5800
April 14-18

Budding artists ages 6-12 will not only create paintings, sculptures and drawings, but each day will include a balance of outdoor time, recess and game time.

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Dragging out the enormous duffle bag, breaking out the preordered labels, taking inventory of last year’s gear…packing for sleepaway camp plays a major role in the exciting build up to dropoff. But what to bring? Every camp provides a packing list, but experienced camp moms know it’s really just a jumping off point. Are 14 pairs of socks enough? Will they really wear a raincoat? What kind of water bottle? (That’s easy—an Owala, or whatever else is trending).

To figure out what to pack or pass on, Tracy Levine, director of One Happy Camper, recommends asking to be connected with a local camp family or two, because it differs by camp. “Maybe the girls all bring Hunter rain boots,” she gives as an example, echoing Morristown mom Samantha Pedinoff’s eighth grader who reported that having Malibu Sugar-brand tank tops helped her fit in. Which is to say, must-have items can change year to year, says Levine.

We asked around, and here are a few suggestions on what to bring to make camp comfier, cozier and cooler. Oh, and be sure to know the camp’s care package policy in the event of an (inevitable) omission.

A BETTER LETTER

“Yes, kids at camp still send letters,” says Levine, who suggests parents should give their digital natives a lesson in analog envelope addressing. Or, better yet, Levine suggests pre-addressing and pre-stamping stationery together as another way to get pumped for the summer, while giving parents time to discuss things like writing prompts and what sorts of things kids want to hear about from you. Some kids have FOMO or are sensitive to “I miss you’s” so keep it light and focused on them.

While letter writing is highly encouraged at camp, some parents take a different approach to communication. “I packed my kids with a free pass—no letter writing,” says South Orange’s Mark Bromfeld, whose no-letter deal with his kids came with a motivating $1 per camp photo incentive. “I was thrilled to see my kids pop up on the screen either smiling or photobombing in the background,” he says. Any parent who got calluses clicking refresh waiting for photo updates knows why this is brilliant.

RETRO PURSUITS

Without access to screens, kids are (wonderfully) forced to fill downtime with low-tech entertainment like novels, sketch pads, puzzle books, playing cards, games (like Mancala), and other items that pass even the strictest care package policies.

Camp stores and bookstores are full of options, though several parents up the ante with personalized notebooks filled with custom-created games, inspiring messages, word scrambles full of kids’ favorite things, inside jokes, prompts about activities (like three new things they tried at camp), and other made-for-them surprises to be enjoyed while away. It’s a loving way to connect without actually being there, and it makes for a great keepsake, too.

ONE-OF-A KIND DESIGN

Personalized anything is cool. “We seem to be selling more and more custom items for camp,” says Lori Stern, owner of Camp Stuff 4 Less in Livingston. Classic camp gear like blankets, stationery, cabin organizers, backrest pillows, stickers, labels, duffle bags and more come in a choice of fun patterns with your child’s name printed or embroidered. “It’s a great way for your child to express themselves, but it can get pricey so it’s really up to the parent,” she says, noting that statement bedding and custom stationery holders are especially popular. For an affordable foray into the trend, nameemblazoned drawstring nylon bags get daily use and are easy to locate in lost-and-found.

TOOL AROUND

A clip fan (some moms say they pack two!) is de rigueur to keep bunks cool on hot and humid nights, but rookie moms often forget the things necessary to keep them spinning—like a small screwdriver. “I was so proud of all of the batteries that we packed for my daughter’s first summer at camp and was confused why so many came back home. Turns out she couldn’t change the batteries,” says Michelle Schaeffer, a Maplewood mom of a seventh grader.

Pack the right tools (and lots of batteries) to keep fans, fairy lights, clip-on LED bulbs, reading lights, radios, and Campfire Players (devices designed for music streaming) running at least until visiting day. Consider packing Fun-Tak hanging putty, Scotch tape, stick-on hooks, lint rollers, etc., so kids can maintain their space without help.

TRADE SECRETS

There’s a hot swap economy happening at summer camps, and knowing the currency is the key. There are three that keep coming up. The first: colorful blingedout collectible StickerBeans, the rarer the better. “Trading was a big deal in the bunks. We got a bunch of them and included a few in each letter that we mailed to her at camp,” says Schaeffer. The second is Jibbitz, shoe charms designed to adorn Crocs. Parents say you should send way more than you think your child needs. “We did not have enough to trade,” says South Orange mom Heather Roberts Murray after her fourth-grade daughter’s first summer away. Friendship bracelets are also the rage at some camps, so it pays to do some reconnaissance pre-summer. And while rare items are a must for trading, it’s also good to send doubles or items your child is willing to part with.

HUG IT OUT

Every child needs something soft and cuddly on their bed. Soft, candy-branded pillows promise to be a hit this summer, according to Lori Stern, while ubiquitous Squishmallows are still a favorite. For kids needing comfort at lights out, something sentimental feels like a hug from home.

Jamie Nowak of Allendale sent her sixth grader to camp with a pillow printed with her family’s picture. “It really helped my daughter on her first full summer away,” she says. Other parents touted pillows personalized with an image of the family pet (there are even companies that can create a look-alike stuffed animal). You can also pack their favorite stuffie, of course.

THE HOT SEAT

Some packing lists recommend bringing a camp chair—but what kind? Designed to prevent wet tushes from the damp ground, the lightweight, fold-up classic clamshellstyle seat features two cushions kept at a right angle by connected straps. It has imitators everywhere, but parents will tell you the only one to get is Crazy Creek’s version, citing its superior ability to bolster backs. The other contender for an “it” seat is the off-ground, pop-up “bungee” chair. At around 10 pounds, it’s more suited to indoor use, yet parents say kids lug it everywhere.

COLORFUL GEAR

Color Wars is a time-honored tradition of pitting half the camp against the other for several days of contests, games, songs and scavenger hunts, requiring color-themed fits. You may need to purchase a preselected collection of tees and other items in both colors so kids can trade with their bunk rivals. Up their game with versatile, shareable things like colored hair chalk, face paint, ribbons, nail polish, scrunchies, tutus, socks, shoelaces, and supplies to make color-war inspired friendship bracelets. If you want to invest a bit more, a hoodie in each camp color will also make sure they’re warm on cool nights.

DIY TLC

A basic first aid kit with Neosporin, itch cream, cute plastic bandages (we love Welly’s designs), and a tweezer for splinters allows kids to tend to minor boo-boos and bug bites without going to the infirmary, and teaches them self-reliance. There’s even a must-have first aid item: The Bug Bite Thing, an innovative gadget which Corey Phelan Watson regretfully did not pack for her fourth grader last summer, much to his chagrin. “My son was annoyed he was the only one without a mosquito bite sucker,” says the Livingston resident. Packing must-haves like this will make your kid’s day when they need it. And if the kids are happy, so are we.

—Jennifer Kantor is a Maplewood-based parenting and lifestyle writer and a mom of two.

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Starting a new job can be intimidating, especially if it’s your first one. You may think being a camp counselor is a simple babysitting gig, but trust me when I say it’s a whole other beast. While I can confidently say that it was the most fun job I’ve ever had, it was also the most challenging.

Here are 10 things I wish I had known before becoming a camp counselor that you should share with your teen:

IT’S OKAY TO ASK QUESTIONS

Being a newcomer anywhere can be scary, but especially in an environment like summer camp where most employees are seasoned veterans. That’s why it’s so important to ask questions. I remember causing my group more issues because I was too scared to ask for help. So encourage your teen to ask away. As I gained more experience, I was happy to help newbies find their way, since I knew exactly how they felt.

NOT EVERY CO-WORKER IS GOING TO BE YOUR BEST FRIEND

Most TV shows and movies show camp counselors as BFFs, and while I’ve made lifelong friends at camp, I’ve also had my fair share of disagreements. And that’s okay! Not everyone your teen meets at camp will share their perspective, so manage expectations and make sure they’re ready to compromise.

WINNING ISN’T EVERYTHING

It’s likely that your campers aren’t professional athletes, so don’t take games and activities too seriously. I’ve found it’s best not to keep score, or for the older kids, only keep score for one sport a day. This prevents fights between campers, and makes counselors’ jobs a lot easier.

EMBRACE THE GOOFINESS

When I was 16, the last thing I wanted to do was embarrass myself in front of an audience. Unfortunately, I found out that no one can escape summer camp without doing at least one silly dance or song. So encourage your teen to lean into it! Trust me, that embarrassment of wearing a Minion costume will fade, but the fun memory will remain with campers forever.

TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF

Being in charge of more than 20 kids can make you forget even the most basic things, like the need to drink water or reapply sunscreen. But, it’s essential to take care of yourself. If a counselor isn’t at their best, the group won’t be either. So, encourage your teen to take their breaks, drink water and wear sunscreen.

DON’T STRIVE FOR PERFECTION

There are really only two priorities to have as a counselor: keep the kids safe and let them have fun. Everything else comes second, so tell your teen not to stress if the group is a few minutes late to an activity. All that really matters is that the camper is going home safe and happy.

OPEN UP TO YOUR CAMPERS

When I first started as a counselor, I found it hard to command my group since I felt like a kid myself. I quickly realized that most kids can see through a fake persona, so I stopped trying to be a strict leader and instead focused on being friendly and relating to them. Most campers really just want someone to talk to, so tell your teen to be open and understanding. It will help them in the long run.

YOU CAN NEVER BE TOO CAREFUL

While counselors should be focused on having fun, it’s important to remember that parents are entrusting their children with you. So teens should be cautious. If a camper says her head hurts, it’s better to take her to the nurse rather than brush it off. She might be trying to get out of an activity, but it’s better to be safe than sorry. Tell your teen to listen to the campers, and to pay attention to safety training. The more prepared they are, the better.

PREPARE TO BE MESSY

During my time as a camp counselor, I don’t think I had a single camper ever go home fully clean. Campers are messy, so tell your future counselor to wear something that they don’t care about. I can’t even count the number of lunches I’ve had to clean up off the floor, or dirty bathing suits I’ve had to pick up. There’s nothing you can do to avoid it, so it’s best to be as ready as you can be.

CAMP ISN’T JUST FOR CAMPERS

I was fortunate enough to work at a summer camp that heavily supports its staff with counselor parties and bonding activities, but no matter where they work, encourage your teen to find a way to connect with other counselors. I’ve made some of my best friends through being a counselor. After all, camp should be fun for everyone. I hope these tips help your teen as they get ready for their first day on the job. Remind them to have fun—everything else will come in time.

—Emma Rothman is a former camp counselor at Deerkill Day Camp in Rockland County, NY, and is a recent graduate of the University of Maryland.

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As a mom of a child with autism, I’ve made it my mission to stay on top of all of the news, resources and opportunities that could potentially help our daughter thrive. I’ve accessed home therapy, found inclusive extracurricular activities in our community, and we’ve even participated in a clinical trial. But there is one service that I’ve yet to take advantage of: PerformCare.

PerformCare is the contracted system administrator for New Jersey Children’s System of Care (CSOC). Through PerformCare, families can gain access to a multitude of services including intellectual and developmental disability services, which may include respite services, technology services—and even camp services.

RESOURCES FOR CAMP & BEYOND

“For 2025, CSOC will be providing summer camp services to eligible youth under the age of 21,” says Danielle Eveland, education liaison with Capitol County Children’s Collaborative, a non-profit care management organization in Mercer County. These services include financial support toward summer camp tuition and one-to-one aide services for summer camp. CSOC is additionally offering alternative recreational sessions (ARS) as an added component of summer camp. ARS provides youth with an opportunity to engage in a recreational activity with peers within the community, on a per-session basis, rather than a full day of camp. “This shorter timeframe will increase camp access for youth who may benefit from a brief structured period compared to a longer traditional camp day,” she says.

This all sounds great, but the reason I haven’t done it is that the application process is…well, not easy. On the PerformCare website there are videos you can watch explaining that the process is “somewhat lengthy.” In order to begin the application process, you need to call and register your child with PerformCare, then sign up for the Family Portal, where you’ll fill out an online application that requires you to upload supporting documents—basically every slip of paper on your child from the moment they were diagnosed. You’ll submit all the required evaluations and fill out the Child Adaptive Behavioral Summary. From there, you’ll receive a determination letter in the mail, which highlights any missing paperwork.

Needless to say, after our initial application was rejected because of missing documents almost three years ago, I put applying on my never-ending to-do list and it never got done.

“For families new to PerformCare, the application process can feel overwhelming, but starting early makes a huge difference,” says Ruthie Bashan, director, Guttenberg Center for Special Services at Kaplen JCC on the Palisades in Tenafly, where children and teens can attend Camp Haverim (which means “friends” in Hebrew). Bashan says families who apply on time are much more likely to secure the 1:1 support their child needs. “It’s also important for parents to share as much information as possible about their child’s strengths, preferences and challenges. This helps match them with the right aide and ensures the best possible experience,” she says.

While just the thought of starting the application process over makes me woozy, Bashan reminds me there are plenty of good reasons to get started now.

“At the Kaplen JCC on the Palisades, we’ve seen how life-changing summer camp can be for neurodivergent children and their families,” she says. “PerformCare has been an invaluable resource for many of the families we work with, allowing children to participate in camp programs they might not otherwise have been able to access. Last summer alone, over 100 children attended our camps with varying levels of support, from simple behavioral plans to full-time inclusion counselors.”

GETTING STARTED

Funding toward summer camp tuition and one-to-one aid is subject to availability. PerformCare recommends applications for CSOC Summer Camp Services be submitted online through the Family Portal. “Camp assistance is available for eligible youths who attend approved camps,” says Eveland. A list of approved camps can be found on the PerformCare website, often by January, but sometimes even earlier. For more information on the application process, go to performcarenj.org and search Summer Camp FAQ.

Due to high demand, you should complete the application process for summer camp financial assistance and/or one-to-one aides as soon as possible. “Parents should check back often to see if their preferred camp is on the approved list,” says Eveland. “PerformCare lists June 30 as the application deadline for this year; however, my suggestion will always be the earlier, the better.”

As any parent of a child with a developmental disability knows, sometimes just getting normal tasks done can be overwhelming. So I asked Eveland if there is anyone who can help with the application process.

“There are several avenues that a parent can take to get help navigating the process of reaching out to PerformCare,” she says. “School counselors and child study team personnel in a child’s school should be available to assist a parent. A doctor or clinician can assist in this process as well.” Community providers, such as your county’s Care Management Organization or Family Support Organization, are also available for a parent to reach out to for assistance in understanding and navigating the process.

Eveland says parents can also get assistance by calling PerformCare at 1-877-652-7624. “A trained associate at PerformCare will help refer a youth and family to the most appropriate level of care their child needs at that time,” she says.

As one parent friend told me, once you get through it, then you’re in (if approved, of course), and could potentially have access to summer camp, respite and so many other services. So the pain of dealing with a mountain of scary paperwork is well worth it.

“One thing I always tell parents is that every child deserves to be included and supported in a camp setting that works for them,” says Bashan. “We’ve seen firsthand how the right planning and resources can help children thrive in a way that brings joy and confidence, not only to them but also to their families.”

This year, I’m not just putting the application on my to-do list. I’m going to get it done!

For more information and a list of items you’ll need to get ready before applying, head to performcarenj.org to view the Readiness Checklist.

 — Ronnie Koenig is an NJ mom of twins. Follow her at Facebook.com/AutismGirlMom.

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When researching summer camps, there are a number of factors to consider, and each family will have specific aspects of a camp that are important to them. Camps do a great job of putting lots of information on their website and social media channels about the camp leadership team, camp program, activities, session length, cost and so much more. Here are a few questions that may not make it to the camp website but could be valuable to know when finalizing camp choices.

What type of child is happy at your camp?

Pick up the phone and ask the camp director to describe what type of child is happy and successful at the camp. Is the camp director describing your child? Be honest with yourself about who your child is and what they like to do before choosing a camp. Remember you are choosing a camp for who your child is, not who you want your child to be.

What are your communication policies?

Each camp handles communication over the summer differently, and there is no right or wrong policy; however, you do need to decide what’s comfortable for you. Some families want regular updates from the camp and may want a camp that sends out a daily email about all that happened that day. Other families are fine with emails from camp that are weekly or detail pertinent information such as visiting day details. Another communication question to ask is about the number of phone calls a camper will get each summer, how long you should expect it to take to receive a return phone call or email, and how often the camp posts photos of campers.

How do you handle bullying or mean behavior in the bunk?

It’s good to understand how a camp handles conflict in the bunk and what the tolerance is for negative behaviors. Do campers sign a contract regarding behavior before the summer? Is there zero tolerance for bullying? What are the consequences for certain types of behavior at the camp you’re choosing?

Do you limit the number of campers from a certain town in a division?

One of the great things about camp is that you can go to camp not knowing anyone and form friendships easily. Sometimes, a camp may have a few kids from one town who come to camp with each other and this tight-knit group can make bonding with others a bit harder. Ask if the camp limits the number of kids from one town in a camp division and if they don’t, do they bunk kids separately or together?

Can my child start at your camp at an older age?

There is no right age to start camp; the best time to begin camp is when your child is ready. When choosing camp for a child on the older side, you may want to ask how long the other campers have been together and if it’s an easy group to break into. You can also ask how many new campers they will enroll for your child’s age group that year. It can be hard to be the only new child so you want to make sure your child can break in or that other new campers are starting as well.

How competitive is your camp?

It’s not always easy to understand the answer to this question from the activities offered. Find out how competitive the sports, color wars and other activities are. Ask yourself if your child thrives with the competition level being described or prefers a less competitive camp.

Does your camp have a mental health professional on staff or on call?

Camp is fun but it’s also real life where children experience anxiety or everyday issues that they need support with. Ask if the camp has a mental health professional on staff or on call should one be needed.

— For more than 14 years, Jess Michaels has worked for the American Camp Association, NY and NJ, a not-for-profit organization dedicated to enhancing the summer camp experience. Jess loves everything about summer camp and has two daughters who spend their summers at camp.

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So, you’re not sold on sleepaway camp. Maybe you think it’s too expensive and not worth the same investment, say, as club sports, STEM studies, and other leg-up endeavors. Or maybe the thought of shipping off your baby for one week, let alone seven, is unbearable—we feel you (as does every teary mom at dropoff). And yet, for many New Jersey families, overnight camp is a beloved, generation-spanning tradition, with legions of parents still utterly devoted to their alma maters and BFFs with bunkmates from 30 years ago. What do they know that camp-shy parents don’t?

“I want to reframe it for those parents: Camp is a gift that you are giving your child,” says Alicia Skovera, executive director, American Camp Association, NY & NJ. Experts will tell you that the right sleepaway camp strengthens social-emotional skills while offering a respite from a fast-moving world. “It’s never been more important because of the culture we live in,” says Lauren Muriello, licensed psychotherapist, speaker, and founder of Well Being Therapy Center in Short Hills and Montville.

The benefits of sleepaway are countless. Here are a few:

EVERY SUMMER IS A FRESH START

Camp allows kids the space to figure out who they want to be, whether in life or just for the summer.

“So many children follow grades with the same group of kids, and camp provides an opportunity to try on different identities,” says Skovera. This is especially important for older and middle school kids who find themselves stuck within rigid social hierarchies and pressure (sometimes parental) to conform to ill-fitting identities. “We don’t want parents and caregivers telling children who they are; it’s something they have to come to themselves,” she says. At camp, they can.

FOREVER CONNECTIONS ARE MADE

Camp ties bear future fruit, from expanded social circles and career networks to finding spouses (not as uncommon as you may think) and fostering next-gen friendships. In mere weeks (days?), kids develop close relationships that last a lifetime—something Bergen County-based Dara Pasternak, an advisor with Camp Experts, well understands. Not only did she meet her husband at the same camp her kids now attend, she’s still tight with her camp besties. “You develop these bonds that are always there, and they just seem to grow as the years go on,” she says.

KIDS LEARN WHAT A FRIEND SHOULD BE

Camp instills a belief that you deserve to belong. “Camp changes you. You feel good about yourself. You gain respect for yourself. You think differently about yourself,” says Skovera. Not only does summer self-esteem prompt kids to reevaluate subpar relationships, having a supportive outside circle provides a safe harbor against cliques, bullying and everyday friendship drama. “It gets you out of your everyday group. If somebody’s feeling crummy at home, they have their friends to reach out to,” says Pasternak. The ability to say “it’s not me, it’s them” is truly a super power.

THEY TRY NEW THINGS

Kids thrive when opportunity meets a supportive “go for it” ethos. New experiences release positive neurochemicals, and studies back the mental health benefits of novelty and not staying static. Camp, with its lavish buffet of activities and experiences, provides kids with ample chances to figure out what they like and don’t like, what they’re good at, and—most importantly—what they want to get better at. There’s a lot of talk these days about the importance of failing. Camp provides endless chances to say “I failed at this but maybe I want to try even harder,” says Skovera.

THEY DEVELOP GRIT AND GUTS

From navigating bunk squabbles to hanging on a bit longer during tug-o-war, developing resilience ensures kids can confidently handle life’s challenges. “It’s like a muscle that you use every time you’re faced with an opportunity—and camp creates all these opportunities all the time,” says Muriello. Every success bolsters self-efficacy (“that feeling that I can go out in the world and make an impact”) which in turn boosts the ability to manage conflicts, disappointments and unpleasantries (aka the chore wheel). All in all, this creates the sort of character we want in our kids: confident, capable, tenacious, capable, and willing to step up.

SOCIAL SKILLS SOAR

Even in pre-screen days, camp kids have always grown more socially savvy over the summer. Humans learn social skills through free play, and putting kids together in a highly social, close-knit living community with adults at the periphery is one of the best ways for them to hone their relationship-building acumen. It can be intense, with the whole gamut of social-emotional learning on display at every moment, but kids often leave armed with a friendship tool kit that they can bring home to use straight through college. The ability to step into new social scenes and connect quickly with peers is a classic camper trait. “You’re not ripping the Band-Aid off for the first time at 18 years old,” says Pasternak.

SCREENS GET A TIME OUT

Camp grants kids the rare long break from screens, social media, and a life lived through phones. The benefits are profound.

“In-person interactions actually trigger the emotional area of the brain. Kids are likelier to have and develop empathy when they’re in person together because they hear tone of voice and see facial expressions. And they’re able to develop relationships in a way that the human brain evolved to do,” says Muriello, unlike text-based communication which taps into language centers. Without pressure to posture and post (or the fear that someone else will), relationships have space to develop naturally. Plus, they can rediscover analog joys like reading books and making eye contact.

NATURE CALLS

Camp can be buggy, muggy, freezing, dirty, damp and otherwise miserable, yet somehow leaving their clean, climate-controlled, tech-centric life behind brings kids so much joy. “So many of us have worked so hard to provide these very comfortable lives for our kids. But I think one of the biggest benefits is getting kids off screens with other kids outdoors. Even if it’s just for a week. Time in nature is really important and has positive impacts on mental health,” say Muriello, noting how the experience changes the brain by decreasing levels of cortisol (the stress hormone). So they deal with gnats, mud, and no one to wash their favorite shirt so they wear it again, dirty. And yet they don’t just survive, they thrive.

FREEDOM IS FOUND

At camp, it’s their world. “Being away from parents is a huge benefit,” says Muriello. Yes, there are caretakers everywhere. Yes, they miss you. But today’s kids don’t get much unstructured independence, and sleepaway camp allows them to make decisions independently, without you in their ear. “Kids need to develop their own internal dialogue: Do I wanna do this? What’s the right thing to do,” she says? And yet, it’s the safe contained setting that makes freedom so delicious. Teenagers in particular really thrive when they have clear parameters they respect, and camp has a way of enforcing rules with just the right amount of give so that kids feel brave and empowered.

Every camper’s journey is unique, transformative, and life-changing in some way. So while you may miss them, the camp experience is truly something not to be missed.

—Jennifer Kantor is a Maplewood-based parenting and lifestyle writer and a mom of two.

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Preschoolers need to stay active and in a routine in the summer, but how do you know when it’s the right time— for them, and for you—to start camp? Experts share tips on how to know if your preschooler is ready, how much they can handle, and what you need to know before signing up for a program.

WHEN TO START

How do you know when your child—and you—are ready for camp? The easy answer is when your kid starts to show a love for exploration, says Ashley Donohue, director of Apple Montessori in Warren. “They may show interest in playing with others rather than alongside them, or are more willing to join a new group of children at the playground while you’re there,” she says. “Having a sense of security in their parents can be a huge factor in their readiness for summer camp.”

If your child can dress themselves, is toilet trained, and feels comfortable separating from you, they may be ready for camp, says Finola Colon, senior director, SACC, Camp, Teen & Family at the Madison Area YMCA. “Camp is a wonderful opportunity for preschoolers to continue to develop independence and learn more about themselves,” she says.

When you notice your little one developing, that means it’s time to start your research—and it’s never too early. Even a year before you think you’re ready, Donohue suggests looking into camps, what activities they offer, and what the application process entails.

The American Camp Association, NY & NJ, is a great resource along with online searches (look for camp directories at njfamily.com) and, most importantly, recommendations from other parents. Plan to attend an open house or schedule a camp tour.

WHAT TO LOOK FOR

Deciding what and where is best for your child can be overwhelming, so start by looking at hours, what a typical day would be like for them, the ratios for each age group, and staff credentials, Donohue suggests. Think about what your child likes to do at home so they can continue having fun and growing while at camp.

Colon says you should ask yourself about your child’s needs and interests, and if the camp aligns with them. Ask your child about what they like to play or create. Ask the camp staff about their activities and summer highlights. And talk with the camp director about safety protocols, plans for inclement weather, and any other policies that are important to you.

Children have different interests, so look into a general day camp, or one that offers specialties. “Each child is unique in their likes or dislikes, so finding what suits them—as well as finding a match for your family’s needs—are the most important,” Donohue says. “A general camp will give you a wide range of activities for children who love everything, are curious, or you are looking for them to expand their interests. A specific type of camp, like sports or dance, will give them the opportunity to enhance their skills in that specific area and if they are passionate about it, it can be a great fit for them!”

GET THE CAMP INVOLVED

A camp director and their staff want what’s best for your child, so get them involved through a camp visit, personal appointment or phone call. The director will generally want to answer all your questions in advance to put your mind at ease.

“You should ask the camp director about the schedule of the day, the activities that are provided for each age group, what to do if your child gets sick, what requirements they have for their staff, and their discipline structure to make sure it is aligned with what you do at home,” Donohue says.

Ask how much experience staff members have with the camp, what training they go through, how they prep for the number of kids attending, and how they handle challenging drop-offs, Donohue says.

BE UPFRONT ABOUT SPECIAL NEEDS

If your child requires (or needs to avoid) anything—from certain foods to extra attention to any physical assistance—you should explain your child’s specific needs when you talk to the camp staff before you enroll to make sure they can accommodate.

“Confirm that the staff is trained to support neurodiverse campers and understand sensory or behavioral needs,” says Aimee Arguedas, associate director of Childcare Programs, Madison Area YMCA. “Ensure you provide any relevant legal documents, like an IEP or 504 Plan, to help the team best support your child.”

Part of this is also knowing how the camp handles safety protocols or injuries. Do they have EpiPens available? Is there medical staff on site or on call? What are the procedures for visitors and what happens during an emergency?

“Knowing what happens after an injury, what you are notified about, how emergency situations are handled, and whether or not they practice emergency drills are all worth considering ahead of time,” Donohue says. “This level of preparedness is crucial to a child’s day and maintaining a safe and fun environment at camp.”

GET READY TO HAVE FUN!

To make sure your kid has a great experience, prepare them beforehand by telling them your own camp stories, letting them know what to expect, reading books about summer camp— Donohue recommends Summer Vacation, Here I Come by D.J. Steinberg and Summer Camp Critter Jitters by Jory John—and shopping for a new lunch box or bathing suit. “[Getting] them excited about the process is also helpful because the more they are included, the more excited they will be,” she says.

And then, off they go!

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